Thank you, friends!

"Friendship is the hardest thing in the world to explain. It's not something you learn in school. But if you haven't learned the meaning of friendship, you really haven't learned anything."


That simple quotation gives me a deeper meaning about what friendship really is. I am so grateful that I have lots of great friends, those who are always there to be my guide when I am lost and cannot think clearly what I should do. Finding best friends is difficult, but once you have found yours then it really makes your life more complete. I love making new friends because I think that by sharing my story whether it is happiness or sadness it will ease my pain and make me more understand how actually real life is. A good friend may not always meet you everyday but everytime you have chat or discussion you will feel that you are close and honest to each other. Nothing should be covered. Although honesty is something hard to be told because you do not want to hurt anyone or in order to keep your well-maintained relationship with your buddies, I really appreciate those who are always trying to be honest. They are really great people who have something different. From my point of view, friendship that is filled up with honesty is the best thing you can create from friendship. Someone who is brave enough to say their limitations must be highly appreciated. We are ordinary humanbeings having own weaknesses and strenghts. That is why, here, together as friends, my little dream is to build "remarkable friendship" where I can find my treasure there, a long term unvaluable asset for my future ahead. Thanks a lot friends for making my life much more colorful and yet insightful. We could be positive element for others by doing the best in everyday's life. Share your life stories and be a light for everyone you meet, especially your best friends! Good luck all my extraordinary friends *__* You have taught many things I cannot get from formal school about what life itself and how precisely wonderful my life is.

-E.D.-
251110
22:33

LOVE YOURSELF JUST THE WAY YOU ARE !

To love yourself is the first important thing that might become the good starting point in enjoying lives every day. We do have to realize the uniqueness within us. It differs us from others, that's why I always think myself is the greatest gift God's given for me and people surrounding me, especially my family. I hope a little bit of my thought coming next could give new inspiration to love yourself specifically and your whole life generally. When I was still in Senior High School, I started my class at 7 am. I had to take a short walk for approximately 5 minutes. I passed a narrow aisle near my school and it was quite quiet in the morning, only a few people especially those great mommies who just went to the Petak Sembilan traditional market appearing in front of my eyes at a glimpse. I like the ambience in the morning which is still fresh and undeliberately could give a powerful energy especially for myself. It is not just related to the physical additional power but precisely for my spiritual life. I was so thankful that I could wake up in the early morning which means God still gives me a chance for having a new day and will always be like that forever because He gives unconditional L.O.V.E. for all human beings without exception. Firstly, I love myself for the way I am which are my health, safeness, luckiness, and many mores, then I look at a great nature around formed in morning dew, singing of birds, and refreshing air with less pollution. Then I realized how beautiful the nature around me is and that pushes me to keep it as it was created for the first time. So, in order to make a balance life, you have to LOVE your LIFE by making an intimate frequent CONVERSATION with GOD, our Creator whereas at the same time you should show your LOVE to the OTHER GOD'S CREATION by taking part in active NATURE CONSERVATION. It is a very great deal that I am still trying to make it better everyday, hoping it could be perfect one day. Could I make it? Time would answer it and I am running out of time though ^^

- E.D.- 160210 12:06

Key Password in Ours

Meeting you deliberately....

It’s out of my control

Knowing you…

It’s out of my estimation

Chatting with you…

It causes gratification in mine

Walking together in our path…

It becomes a very meaningful experience

Imagining yours…

It makes me understand deeper and deeper

How it feels. How it happens. How it will result in.

~As time goes by~

Maintaining our integrity…

It’s more knotty for you and me

*Day by day passed through*

Wishing for the best…

Trying to actualize it

And waiting all efforts

We’ve done

We’ve struggled for

Till …

One day …

The precious moment of mercy happens

You and I are united

Merging into togetherness

Engraving beautiful memories…

Promising one another…

With one main key

Called ****

A great principle

For the rest of our life

-E.D.-

200908

A Humble Heart

Once upon a time

You walked and stood up in front of me

You didn’t say anything

You made me so confused inside

But, I just stayed calm outside

A simple conversation was began

Deep inside my mind

Hoping that it wouldn’t end

Just from your outside look

It was totally goof

Making a great pleasurable moment

No one has known yourself

Even a very old friend

In an unpredictable time

I found you

Someone with a humble heart

And simple words said

Between us

Signaling a very eminent message

—-E.D—-

041008

1:02 AM

DIFFERENCE MAKES RICHNESS

For most people a happy life defined as the condition where prosperity in the form of material need (money) is on hand. Sometimes, I think that not all perspectives held by majority are absolutely true. Yeah, let’s take a look at the example happened in the reality, if all people around the world, have the same point of view, this world will not exist and go well until now. All famous inventors like Albert Einstein, Alexander Graham Bell, etc could do something phenomenal because of having another thinking, an unique consideration and response about something. I really believe that they all felt uncomfortable with all those events happened in that time. They had another alternatives to solve problems and as a result, they did experiments needed in order to prove that their “different” point of views were actually true. It was not easy to change major perspective adopted by most people in the world. It needed enormous efforts and the most important thing to be red penciled, they all have a high perseverance. I am sure that they did experiments many times, not only once in a life time, if they don’t have high perseverance, it will not be any electric light bulb and the relativity formula which gave a lot of contribution for the world transformation. This awareness brings me to have a unique idea that will be my own worth asset for my future. My suggestion for all people in this world, my friends, my families, and anyone read this blog, is not to be afraid with your own perspective although it is totally different with others, just stay calm, and believe that your difference will make a great contribution for this world, yeah…….

” A Better World. A better transformation . A better people involved”.

World needs us, as the young generation to make changes. If we only stay in the same track , in our comfort zone and follow our predecessor, we cannot overcome everychange happened around us, even in front of our eyes and affect directly to our existence. Let’s make changes and be the next Einstein! I also hope that it will happen to me….Good luck for all of you, friends!….

-E.D.-

101008

14:24 PM

REVOLT!

“Does everything we see in front of our eyes is actually the real fact?”

I think it doesn’t
Why?
We live in this world in the area called “environment”. My environment affected a lot for myself, especially my family and friends. I needed more patient to face all problems happened to me. Because of all supports from nice environment around me, I could solve them immediately. Thank you all=)
Honestly, I sometimes didn’t agree with others said and unfortunately, I had to follow what they said. Other people might think that all things were going well, but they had to know what I was thinking in my mind those times…..
It is extremely painful to accept
What I can’t accept
To feel
What I don’t feel
To smile
Though it purely doesn’t come from my heart
To do
What I hate
To be
What I dislike
Okay,
I need time to close my eyes
Open my mind
Listen to my heart
Saying the truth
The sureness
Coming deeply from my own
Finally
Feeling free
Discarding all lies
Stepping forward
Moving on
For another challenges
-E.D.-
151008
20:11PM

CHANGE

“When you’re finished changing, you’re finished.”

-Benjamin Franklin-

What is the absolute thing that will happen in our lives? It is called change. World is changing everysecond and we, as human being can’t avoid it. We must follow all changes. The same thing faced by everyone in his or her life is the change itself, but how to overcome all changes is different from one to others. There are people who overcome the change with enthusiasm and well preparation. On the other hand, there are people who are not ready with all changes and at last, they suffer crisis, yeah in many forms in their lives. If I meet change, I wonder whether I can pass it successfully or not without any significant obstacles. And the best answer for this one is chatting with my families and kith. They will give many alternatives, I can choose one of them which I think that will be the best for me. At first, “change” will be so difficult for people who are constantly livein the same condition. But, as time goes by, I really believe that all experiences I have faced before will be the best lessons for the next step in my life. Changes will open my mind to see the world in different perspectives. They enlighten my soul and widen my horizon. Okay, good luck for all of you, friends! Don’t be afraid with change because it is not our hindrance to move forward, it is our chance to go through the higher level in our lives.

-E.D.-

241008

22:18 PM

-I am educated because of learning from LIFE!-

"Education is not preparation for life; education is life itself."
-John Dewey-


I do really believe that quotation will give many different perceptions for every person. For me, it is actually related to my current condition now according to what had happened to me in these several days. I am still a college student, who just finished the third semester and by Feb 15, 2010 I'll be entering the forth semester of my campus life. I've been thinking about how I will bring my education in the next two years. I started my first education about 15 years ago and surely, many lessons that I have got from several formal private schools, actually it is only two schools because I didn't move to another school since Elementary until Senior High school. I love to be a part of that school though ^^. But, the thing that will always come over into my mind is this question: "Why should I continue my education into the highest point of mine?" Probably, it is enough for me to hold a bachelor degree, so I can have a good job connected to my major. But, my parents always say that if I have a chance for continuing my study, I must take it. Feeling tired and bored sometimes is the hindrance for me to stop thinking about future education. I just want to focus on what I am doing now. But, I try to think in a different way. I feel that the education system in campus is totally different from senior high. it enables me to explore my own interest and keep focusing on it, while also paying attention to the others, such as the subjects which are not my favorites and also social life. I think that if I managed all of them, so as they are still on the right track, I would be a successful person one day. For me, success is an option, so does life. I have to be well-prepared every time by spending my leisure time in useful activities. I am sometimes tempted to spend many hours, doing useless things, but it's normal. Life has taught me how to appreciate life itself. I am grateful for having a very wonderful family, good friends, and many people whom I have met during my life journey. They have taught me how to be a better person in the way of behaving politely in front of public, thinking more mature, and deciding important choices that will determine my own future. I have got an essential point about life itself. To simplify, I can conclude it in a brief statement: we all are given the same thing which is 24 hours in a day, but how to spend it is totally different from one to others. For 2010's resolution, I want to make every second in every hour on every day in every month in this year as the valuable ones. I want to make all my dreams come true. I believe that every little thing which is done with passion will be big thing someday! Thanks for my life who has become the best teacher ever and all people involved in it ^_^. To conclude, both formal and informal education are important for me, surely they serve me with different materials and exams. While the formal education gave me theoretical and logical knowledge, the informal education which is called bad and good experiences sometimes gave me such precious unexpected result. Formal education which is blended with informal education and the doers who can combine them well, so as to create masterpieces will be such great life masters. I wish I could be one of them one day in the future ahead.

.........All the best for us in 2010......